Assalamualaikum
First and foremost, I really really really tried to be someone decent on Ramadan. I tried really hard to stop myself from blogging about weird stuff like this but then I got mind poisoning from keeping the thoughts to myself so, yeah, for the sake of my mental health, let's just resume my normal self. T_________T
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If you like someone just freaking say itttttt.
Sorry emo sekejap....haha.
It has been a longggg time since I watched any love centered drama...unless if it's really light romantic comedy drama. I don't know man....age makes me really picky.....and serious too. Unless the drama could add value to my life, I'll pass. #acah
Farid, on the other hand, watches everyhhhthang and he has been bugging me to watch "Her Private Life" because it's funny and stupid (when I say stupid it's not in the "eeeee ape bodoh sangat ni tak boleh brain ah" tone, but more on "weh lawak bodoh apakah ini hahahahhahahaha").
So I watched it. I should not have. T-T. While it's really funny and stupid, I was reminded once again on why I stop this genre all together; similar center plot....boy likes girl, girl likes boy, boy doen't want to get hurt and vice versa, both complicate things because of fear of commitment, fear of losing each other as a friend/sister/colleagues/schoolmates. You know, same old same old.
So this is what happen in the scene that I watched today,
So this is what happen in the scene that I watched today,
The female lead and the male lead are in a fake public relationship. The male lead, confess to another person that he's ending this fake relationship because he wants to start a real one with the female lead (awwwwwww so sweet). The female lead only know about the first part (his desire to break the fake relationship) and don't know about the second part. Now now, this is where things got complicated (it shouldn't be!). The female lead likes the guy but since she wants to save her own face, she broke up with the guy first before he broke up with her. *roll eyes*. and the guy kan tadi dah on the way to confess to the girl kan, he was ready with flowers and everything. and now he's bitter because he was rejected when his emotion was at it's highest.
I mean, come onnnnnnnnn. Life is not that complicated weh. If you like someone, just say it. There is only two possible answer, yes or no. If you got rejected, it's okay. I honestly want to know why people fear rejection. Would you rather live with "what ifs?"; would you rather torture yourself and stay in a one sided love forever? Seriously? That's better than getting rejected and move on? (Moving on is another huge topic by itself, that's a story for another day)
For now let's focus on one sided love. For me, that's overrated too. We like to romanticize one sided love and be like "you don't know the painnnnnn,". Well babe, of course you're in pain, you're fantasizing! and fantasies deal with expectation and expecting something from another person always hurt. How to manage expectation? Confess daaaa. This stop the overthinking and fantasies. but but...."should I really say the word? I mean I've given so many hints already". Dear, people aren't mind reader. Not everyone think alike, not everyone can take hints. People are slowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. Just say it babeh. =P
p/s: If you feel like this is a dejavu, no it's not. I wrote a lot about the same topic (confession & rejection) throughout my blog. ='D (In my defense, the same thing keeps happening around me!)
On a side note, I am not belittling the pain of rejection. I know damn well that rejection hurts too. As said by a friend who's name has to remain anonymous if I want to still have friends (lol), she said that it hurts to be rejected because when you confess, in your mind and heart, you have all this huge emotions and dream centered towards that person and when he/she reject you, he/she put a stop in everything. There is no future together. This has to end. So out of a sudden, you have to let go of all these huge emotion and dreams, you need to throw them away, completely, it's frustrating, sad, and it hurts. I get it....but darling, at least you have an ending. Imagine living a life still centered towards that person, still with the same dreams, when in reality, to that person, you're nothing. Imagine that.
I hope you don't want to be stuck in time. I hope you choose you, always. <3
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p/s: If you feel like this is a dejavu, no it's not. I wrote a lot about the same topic (confession & rejection) throughout my blog. ='D (In my defense, the same thing keeps happening around me!)
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On a side note, I am not belittling the pain of rejection. I know damn well that rejection hurts too. As said by a friend who's name has to remain anonymous if I want to still have friends (lol), she said that it hurts to be rejected because when you confess, in your mind and heart, you have all this huge emotions and dream centered towards that person and when he/she reject you, he/she put a stop in everything. There is no future together. This has to end. So out of a sudden, you have to let go of all these huge emotion and dreams, you need to throw them away, completely, it's frustrating, sad, and it hurts. I get it....but darling, at least you have an ending. Imagine living a life still centered towards that person, still with the same dreams, when in reality, to that person, you're nothing. Imagine that.
I hope you don't want to be stuck in time. I hope you choose you, always. <3
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