Assalamualaikum
"Ish benci pulak la aku perempuan ni positive positive sangat kenapa,"
Said Faten to me after she finished with her sesi meluahkan perasaan.
bengong.
No, I am not always like this. And tbh, it's easier to say positive things when it's other people's problem not yours. To me, the phrase "I understand" and "I've been there" are overrated. You can't be 100% sure that you understand everything unless you are that person. The exact same person. Because unless you are that person, you can only guess how they feel. Your experience might have been the same, the thing that is happening to them now, you might have went through it earlier, but don't ignore the human factor. Each person feel and react differently to a situation so yup, you can't really say you understand the whole situation and you were technically and figuratively never there in that person shoes.
The world is shitty. People are going to disappoint you, things don't always go as plan and you don't always get what you want. Some days are going to be bad some days are going to be good. You don't really have any control over this do you? Who does? God.
Doesn't He promises rainbow after the rain? silver lining after a storm? Good after bad? Kun fayakun. Be and it is. If He say that He'll only give you the best of everything, why are you doubting Him? no, How dare you doubt Him!
Have this ever happen to you,
You asked for something, you wanted it so bad you prayed and worked hard for it....for years...tapi tak dapat dapat jugak. You were devastated..you stressed over it. You were miserable. Then, God gives you something different but much better, something you don't even know you want let alone need. Lepas tu malu sendiri. eeeee malu je sebab sibuk serabut fikir lepas tu siap doubt God punya plan lagi padahal Dia tau je lah bila nak bagi. His timing is always perfect.
So tak nak lah malu malu lagi weh. Put your ultimate trust in The All Knowing. He knows you best. He knows what and when to give it to you.
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